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posted by: kwurk (reply) post date: 07.26.04 (2:05 pm) people get embarrased by death yet its something that we all have to deal with sooner or later. when i die, i dont want people to mourne and become depressed, i want them to remember me always and battle on with life...etc |
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When a loved one dies, it's a trying time and your friends sometimes seem to fall over themselves trying to comfort and support you. Some people get extremely uncomfortable and don't know what to say. The best advice is just to keep it simple, say what you know and don't exaggerate or adlib. Don't exaggerate about your closeness to the deceased. Don't talk about fictitious occasions in which you and the deceased took part. And for the love of God and all that is holy, don't screw up your face and squeeze your eyes trying to milk fake tears that won't fall. Pay your respect, express your condolences, offer a shoulder to cry on and go home.