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Guys and Dolls
09.20.04 (12:55 pm)   [edit]
I love my brother Bud. He's a good big brother to me and a good son to my Mom. Unfortunately, he's not so good to the other ladies in his life. He also has issues such as paranoia and what I like to call a "sun complex" - he thinks he is the center of the solar system at times and everything that happens around him, revolves around him. Don't get me wrong, he's not egotistical, thinking himself to be all that. He just thinks that every weird look, every odd glance, every sudden movement, every rejection is part of a greater conspiracy against him. He thinks that there are evil minds out there sending out signals questioning his manhood.

I'm at my wits end when it comes to helping him to get over his paranoia. Mom and I suggested a counselor and he wasn't very keen on it at all. He considers going to a counselor a failure and the height of self-centeredness. I told him self-centeredness runs in the family. I have a blog, therefore I am self-centered. I nagged for weeks and finally he relented. Here's a convo I had with AE about his visit and his other issues.

natblog: Bud went to the counsellor twice
natblog: she's recommending professional therapy if his insurance has a mental health plan
AESav: wow
AESav: I'm glad he went
natblog: he seems addicted to it too
natblog: a lady who listens to him for hours...I should have known he'd find it appealing
AESav: lol
AESav: I'm glad he went. I really am.
natblog: He broke up with Mimi and they're still having sex occasionally
natblog: he told me this last night...I could have killed him
natblog: He should have cut the ties completely especially since she likes him more than he likes her. It was so wrong of him to turn her into his f**k buddy
AESav: Girls think sex = love.
AESav: sex = relationship
natblog: exactly...and he told me he knows
natblog: so I said if he knows, that's even worse
natblog: I told him to end it...now he says he has to especially since he has a date with a new girl this Saturday
natblog: He's gonna dump Mimi completely this week and go off with New Chick on Saturday..
natblog: Anne,
natblog: I find my brother repulsive...how sad is that?
AESav: I hope he doesn't tell Mimi he's dumping her because he has a date on Saturday.
natblog: knowing him...he might...because she's also his best-buddy
natblog: gives him advice on women
natblog: how twisted is that?
AESav: Very...I guess in her mind, it's still some kind of relationship; or, hell, let's hope she's just using him for sex too
AESav: then we can feel better
natblog: I know she's not...
natblog: women are hardly like that and I've met Mimi...she's not a user
natblog: Even my Mom thinks Bud's being an ass
natblog: and she doesn't know about the booty calls
AESav: :: sigh ::
 


posted by: rinna (reply)
post date: 09.20.04 (5:57 pm)

hey nat, long time no see. :)

my brother in law is EXACTLY the same way. he's so paranoid, worse thing is he takes it out on the family and vents to his friends. he goes to the doctor and the psychs and takes his medication, but he doesn't listen. at all. ack, relatives. :s
x r x

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