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Is it Cheating?
02.08.05 (3:08 pm)   [edit]
I don't think masturbation is cheating, nor do I think that watching porn or reading Playboy is cheating. What I really want to know is this: Is chatting, flirting and describing sexual positions with a person online in a chatroom for four hours considered cheating?

Bud says "No!"
- There's no physical contact.
- Both parties are complete strangers. I'm not sharing any personal information with this other person.
- It means nothing to either one of us.
- Cybersex is not real sex.
- It's just fantasy. It's like saying that pretending my girlfriend is Selma Hayek while we have sex is wrong.
- In the chatroom it's a different person everytime. Where in real life are you going to find that variety?
- The only time I feel guilty is when you nag me about it!
- Would you rather I go out to a club and hook up with some strange women??

I say "Yes!"
- There may be no physical contact but your reactions are physically manifesting!!
- If you can't tell your girlfriend about it for fear that she will be upset, you know you're doing something wrong.
- If it means nothing to either one of you, why are you doing it?
- You're getting pleasure from it in a way that rivals the pleasure you get from girlfriend.
- Selma Hayek?? That is just wrong!! Well, ok...I guess that's understandable. I mean she is built like Jessica Rabbit...still, I feel sorry for your girlfriend.
- Bud, you're in a committed relationship. Face it, variety is a privilege you abdicated.
- If it wasn't registering as wrong on some level for you, I couldn't begin to make you feel guilty.
- As for hooking up with strange women at a club - is that a threat? Is this what this argument has come to? Like I should be glad that you remember to leave the toilet seat down 20% of the time instead of not at all.


So folks, who wins the debate???
 


posted by: aesav23 (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (12:14 pm)

Seriously... have you ever considered law? :o)
~ae



posted by: kristelfaye (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (12:16 pm)

yes. it's cheating.




posted by: angiekruger (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (12:17 pm)

umm, maybe i'm not the best one to answer this



posted by: BobbyJoe (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (1:00 pm)

I'm gonna have to say 'yes' for the 2nd reason you listed. If you can't tell you're significant other, you know you're screwing up. I dated a girl who used to do that. When I caught her she got nervous. That's when I knew something was up. If she'd said "you wanna join me talking to these folks?" I probably would have thought it was weird but, I don't think I would have been jealous.



posted by: jennirae269 (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (2:06 pm)

Jeez, I have mixed emotions about this. I'm one of the ones that got caught doing this way back in the day....long ugly story. That's why I made sure L knew about my blog, so she could see what I'm writing and who I'm talking to.



posted by: dustyjumpwings (reply)
post date: 02.08.05 (2:44 pm)

Yes it's cheating, I think. Honestly, when he's having sex with his girlfriend, he should be dreaming about *HER*, not Selma Hayek!



posted by: Rawk (reply)
post date: 02.09.05 (12:13 am)

I don't think its cheating .. i think its inconsiderate ... and i know i'd be pissed if my gf did it



posted by: DutchessRuthine (reply)
post date: 02.09.05 (10:23 am)

I'm not sure where the cheating line is drawn, but it is definitely signs of an unhealthy relationship. A good one wouldn't require you to look for outside sources to meet your sexual needs.
As far as hooking up with strange women in clubs, I think you're right to call that a threat. A very immature one at that. With that as his defense, he better get used to the idea of seeing it through because he won't be getting any at home. :O)



posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 02.10.05 (11:49 am)

I agree with you DC!!!!

It's CHEATING!!!

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