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I Think You're Already Gone
02.18.05 (1:37 am)   [edit]
I've made a couple friends since moving to the valley and that's about it. They're my brother's friends and I've become a big fan of theirs. They're both sweet and kind. One of them even bought me candy for Valentine's Day because she knew that I'd be home alone watching 24 and Medium while my ovules cried themselves to sleep. So you can imagine how upset I was when the actions of my brother threatened my budding friendship with both girls. I mean, I feel so isolated as it is.

Here's the deal. The friend that bought me candy for VD happened to be Bud's girlfriend at the time. I really like her. She's spunky, funny, a bit chatty when you're watching a movie or a tv show, but really sweet and kind. So naturally, I like hanging out with her and I think she's great with my brother. So while they were a couple, all was well in my world, you know. I was just beginning to shed the boyfriend's sister tag and possibly become friends with her when my brother decided to nix all that.

Friend #2 is one of the girls I went out with last friday. She reminds me of a rich man's Eva Mendes because, seriously, nobody is poor enough to be a poor man's Eva Mendes. Anyway, she's cute, funny, friendly and a great dancer. So naturally I was excited about her as a friend too. So when Bud drops a bomb on me on Monday (VD) that he has strong feelings for friend #2, I was a bit worried. He could totally screw things up with both women and that would leave me friendless in the valley.

On VD he had a date with his then girlfriend, friend #1. He took her to dinner and then to see the movie Hitch, starring Will Smith and the afore mentioned Eva Mendes. He told me when he got home that the date was a disaster because the whole time he was with his girlfriend he was thinking about friend #2 and watching Eva Mendes on the giant screen only made matters worse. This is after his girlfriend had spent a fortune on his VD gift and scribbled in the card the words "you complete me." So I said to him "I love you, but you're an asshole."

Lastnight he broke up with his girlfriend over the phone. I was furious! Not that he broke up with her, but the way he did it. They had been dating on and off for over a year, and they were friends. She deserved more than that. He should have done it in person. I went to bed so pissed off at my brother but I couldn't tell him. He was feeling pretty crappy too. I remember watching him hang up the phone and limp to his room like Gallagher had taken a mallet to his nuts.

I was expecting a package today, so when the door bell rang, I opened it in excitment. It was friend #1. She stopped by to return my brother's things, including the Tigerland DVD I had loaned her. She had a pained expression on her face. She also returned my brother's now outdated copy of the yellow pages. That's right, she came by to return the yellow pages and my DVD. Awkward!! I could only manage a "I'd really like it if you and I go out sometime." She responded with "You have my number so you can call me when you want." We nodded at each other then I hugged her because I just wanted her to know I was on her side. I'm not an asshole like my brother.

Suddenly she bolted. Then I realized it was because Bud was standing behind me and she didn't want to see him. I'm hoping that she'll still want to be my friend, but I think I've already lost. Everybody hurts when a relationship goes south, even the friends.
 


posted by: dustyjumpwings (reply)
post date: 02.17.05 (10:45 pm)

Your brother is a jackass. And, after getting a card from F#1 like that, wtf? Did it not touch him at all?? I'd like to take a mallet to his nuts myself..... Shall I send out the castration squad?

I'm sure F#1 realizes you have nothing to do with and no control over the matter- I see no reason why she wouldn't want to be your friend any more.

Did Bro tell her about his thing for F#2? That'll probably put their relationship on the rocks too.

*siiiigh*, men.



posted by: dangerkitty (reply)
post date: 02.17.05 (10:48 pm)

Reply to: dustyjumpwings
That's why they broke up. She felt him being distant and asked him if there was someone else and he told her over the phone that he was in love with another girl. UGH!!

Well, at least he was honest.



posted by: Joolie (reply)
post date: 02.18.05 (4:15 am)

Thats brothers for you hon, but at least he had the guts to tell her that he had thoughts about someone else. She said you could call her so take her up on it? Joolie xxx



posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 02.18.05 (8:34 am)

Reply to: dangerkitty

He actually LOVES the other friend??? Or just LUSTS after her??? Sounds a bit weird to me.



posted by: Roxgirl (reply)
post date: 02.18.05 (8:36 am)

oh... and I feel your friendship pain :( I've been there myself!

Things will start looking up, just give it time :)



posted by: dangerkitty (reply)
post date: 02.18.05 (10:20 am)

Reply to: Roxgirl
Love? Lust? I'm not really sure. I'm not sure she's as into him as he's into her. So he could end up being alone.



posted by: dangerkitty (reply)
post date: 02.18.05 (10:20 am)

Reply to: Roxgirl
Thanks. I'm hanging tough. :)

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